About Lee & Sherry Patterson
Founders of Relationship Reinvented LLC
"The deepest pain holds the keys to the purest love. We are proof."

Our Story: From Brokenness to Oneness

In 2011, our relationship shattered again. What began as a love story in the summer of 2005—a connection so electric it felt fated—collapsed under the weight of unhealed wounds, fear, and pride. The breakup was brutal, a storm of anger and grief that left us questioning everything. But in the rubble of that pain, we discovered a paradoxical truth: the more we hurt each other, the stronger our invisible bond grew.

We couldn’t escape it. The arguments, the silence, the longing—it all carried a hidden message: We were mirrors for each other’s deepest wounds. The very pain that tore us apart was guiding us back to ourselves, and ultimately, back to one another.

In August 2013, we chose radical honesty. We faced the shadows we’d spent years running from—childhood trauma, societal expectations, the lies we’d internalized about love. For over a year, we excavated layer after layer of fear, shame, and ego. On October 3, 2014, we stepped into a new union, no longer as two broken halves seeking completion, but as whole beings choosing partnership from a place of Oneness.

The Birth of Relationship Reinvented

Our journey revealed a universal truth: Connection to others begins with connection to self. The agony we’d endured wasn’t a flaw in our love—it was the gateway. We realized that society teaches us to numb pain, to “move on,” but true healing demands we lean in.

In 2011, we founded Relationship Reinvented to guide others through this alchemy. What started as intimate workshops in our living room has since grown into a global movement. To date, we’ve walked with over 10,000 human beings across 37 countries, helping them transform relational pain into profound self-awareness and authentic connection.

Root Camp: Sherry’s Gift to the World

Root Camp is not a program—it’s a pilgrimage back to your soul. Crafted by Sherry from her own journey through abandonment and self-betrayal, this immersive experience is designed to help you:

• Dig Up the Roots: Unearth childhood wounds, societal conditioning, and subconscious patterns that sabotage connection.

• Reclaim Your Voice: Replace fear with fierce self-compassion.

• Anchor in Oneness: Learn to relate from wholeness, not lack.

Sherry often says:

“Your most painful relationship is your greatest teacher. It’s not about fixing others—it’s about meeting yourself in the wreckage and saying, ‘I’m here. Let’s heal.’”

Our Philosophy: Pain Is the Pathway

We don’t believe in “quick fixes” or bypassing hard emotions. Our work is built on three pillars:

1. Pain is Sacred: It’s not the enemy—it’s the compass pointing you toward unmet needs and unhealed trauma.

2. Connection Starts Within: You cannot give or receive love fully until you’ve befriended your own soul.

3. Oneness is a Practice: It’s not a destination. It’s daily courage to choose vulnerability over armor.

Why We Do This

Because we’ve lived in the darkness. Because we know the shame of feeling “broken” in a world that worships perfection. Because we’ve tasted the freedom that comes when you stop fighting your pain and let it guide you home.

This isn’t about saving marriages or forcing reconciliation. It’s about liberation. Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between, our mission is to help you:

• See your pain as wisdom

• Rewrite your story from empowerment

• Build relationships that honor your wholeness

Join the Revolution of Connection

To anyone reading this: Your pain is not the end. It’s the invitation.

Lee & Sherry Patterson
Co-Founders, Relationship Reinvented LLC

“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” — Rumi
Let us help you find the Light.

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Relationship Reinvented LLC | Since 2011 | Healing the World, One Connection at a Time